opinion essay

There are many difference attitude of parents in how to teach their children well. For the major part,they assume that the best way to teach their children effectively is combine commend with punish. When the parents get angry with what their children do in wrong way,they will use some corporal punishment to treat them. It is rather difficult to control themselves,is it indeed necessary for the parents spank their child? Maybe at that time,it can relieve all their angry.But,they don't relized that their corporal punishment to their children can cause some bad effect.

One child who is always spanked will be lacked their self_confidence or the development of intelligence and social skill can be decreased. When the children were young,they were very active and naughty. In that ages,almost all of them always interested in discovering anything strange around them. So if parents smack them,that mean the parents are preventing them from getting more knowledge and enlarging their sensibility. In my opinion,the corporal punishment shouldn't be used as a daily routine.In the other hand,the corporal punishment also make the children has a bad feeling to their parents.The children are too young to understand all the love of their parents give them,thus when their father or mother hit them,all of whatever they think is their parents doesn't love them. It really difficult to share the feeling each other,it will have a long distant between parents and children. Futhermore the children can easy to be envious. Accoding to psychological research indicates that the corporal punishment causes the deterioration of trust bonds between parents and their child. Children who be spanked may grow resentful,shy,insecure or violent.

Actually,many people said that: "Children like young animals,learn through pain. If a child burns his hand on a hot kettle,he won't touch it again because he maybe curious but he had found out that hot things hurt.There is no harm done.There are acceptable standards of behavior and if the children breach those standards,they will be punished". It maybe true but using corporal punishment is not the only way to teach children well,parents should not depend on the corporal punishment. There are many other efective methods to discipline a child that we don't need using violence by talking and listening to them.

Generally, It rather hard to change people's attitude,but it is possible to help children out of the fear of physical pain. in order to give them a best future,using corporal punishment should be banned and the parents should realized that when they try to protect their child,it is not mean that they have to spank them.

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